A Day in the Life: Why You're Exhausted (And How to Fix It)
Let's walk through your average day.
You think you're doing fine. You're busy, you're keeping up, you're "getting by."
But you're exhausted. Brain-fogged. Running on fumes.
And you can't figure out why.
Here's why: Your daily routine is working against you.
Let me show you what a typical day looks like for most people and exactly where it's all going wrong.
7:00 AM: You Wake Up Exhausted
You got 7-8 hours of sleep. Or less.
Regardless, you wake up feeling like you got hit by a truck.
What's happening:
Your body didn't actually rest. You went to bed too late, scrolled on your phone before sleep, and your cortisol never dropped. Your blood sugar crashed overnight because you didn't eat enough yesterday (or you ate too much sugar and your insulin is all over the place).
Your body is already in a deficit before your day even starts.
The fix:
Get sunlight within 30 minutes of waking up (regulates cortisol and circadian rhythm)
Eat a protein-rich breakfast within an hour of waking (stabilizes blood sugar, prevents afternoon crash)
Skip the phone scroll before bed (blue light destroys melatonin production)
But you don't do any of that. You hit snooze three times, scroll Instagram in bed, and rush to get ready.
7:30 AM: You Skip Breakfast (Or Grab Something Terrible)
You don't have time to eat. Or you're "not hungry in the morning."
So you skip breakfast. Or you grab what's convenient.
Option 1: You skip breakfast entirely (without fasting properly).
Your body is already running on empty. No fuel. Your blood sugar crashes. Your cortisol spikes to compensate. You're irritable, unfocused, and craving sugar by 10 AM.
Option 2: You grab a mocha iced coffee and a breakfast sandwich.
Let's break this down.
The Mocha Iced Coffee:
30-40g of sugar (depending on size)
Artificial flavoring and syrups
Minimal protein or fat to slow absorption
What this does to your body:
Massive blood sugar spike → Insulin surge → Energy crash within 2 hours → Brain fog, irritability, and cravings.
You just set yourself up to fail for the rest of the day.
The Breakfast Sandwich:
Processed meat (nitrates, preservatives, inflammatory seed oils)
Refined white bread or English muffin (spikes blood sugar, zero nutrients)
Processed cheese (not real cheese—it's cheese product with fillers)
Maybe 10-15g of protein if you're lucky
The macros:
40-50g carbs (mostly refined)
10-15g protein (not nearly enough)
15-20g fat (mostly inflammatory seed oils)
What this does to your body:
Another blood sugar spike. Minimal protein means no satiety. Inflammatory oils stress your gut and liver. You'll be hungry again in 90 minutes.
The fix:
Eat a real breakfast with 30-40g of protein, healthy fats, and minimal refined carbs.
If you like cooking:
Veggie-loaded omelet (3-4 eggs, spinach, mushrooms, peppers) cooked in butter or ghee with avocado on the side
Sweet potato hash with ground beef or turkey, topped with fried eggs
Smoked salmon, scrambled eggs, sautéed greens, and roasted tomatoes
Breakfast skillet: diced potatoes, sausage (check ingredients), peppers, onions, topped with eggs
If you need something quick:
3-4 scrambled eggs with a handful of berries and some cheese
Full-fat Greek yogurt (plain, not flavored) with chia seeds, walnuts, and a drizzle of raw honey
Protein smoothie: protein powder or collagen, banana, spinach, nut butter, unsweetened almond milk
Leftovers from dinner (yes, you can eat chicken and vegetables for breakfast)
If you need grab-and-go:
Hard-boiled eggs (prep 6-12 on Sunday) + avocado + berries
Turkey or chicken breakfast sausages (check ingredients) + apple slices with almond butter
Cottage cheese with berries, hemp seeds, and cinnamon
Protein muffins (made with almond flour, eggs, protein powder - meal prep on Sunday)
This stabilizes your blood sugar, fuels your brain, and prevents the mid-morning crash.
But you don't do that. You grabbed the coffee and sandwich. Now you're riding a blood sugar rollercoaster.
10:30 AM: The Mid-Morning Crash
You're exhausted. You can't focus. You're craving sugar.
So you grab a snack.
What you reach for:
A granola bar (sugar disguised as health food)
A muffin or pastry from the break room
Another coffee (with more sugar)
A handful of candy from someone's desk
What this does to your body:
Another blood sugar spike. Another insulin surge. Another crash coming in 60-90 minutes.
You're not "broken." You're just stuck in a blood sugar rollercoaster that you created at 7:30 AM.
The fix:
If you ate a proper breakfast, you wouldn't need a mid-morning snack. But if you do need one, make it protein and fat-based:
Simple snack options:
Hard-boiled eggs (2-3)
Cheese cubes (real cheese) + apple slices
Beef jerky or meat sticks (check ingredients—most are loaded with sugar)
Carrot with peanut butter (check the ingredients) or cashew butter
Handful of berries
Turkey or chicken roll-ups with avocado
But you didn't. You grabbed the granola bar. Now you're heading into lunch already depleted.
12:30 PM: Lunch (Takeout or Thrown Together)
You're busy. You didn't plan ahead. So you either:
Option 1: Order takeout.
Most takeout is loaded with:
Refined carbs (white rice, pasta, bread)
Inflammatory seed oils (soybean, canola, vegetable oil)
Excess sodium (not the good kind—the processed kind)
Hidden sugars in sauces and dressings
Minimal vegetables or fiber
What this does to your body:
Blood sugar spike. Inflammatory response. Gut irritation. You'll be bloated, sluggish, and crashing by 2 PM.
Option 2: You throw together a sandwich or a salad.
The sandwich:
Deli meat (processed, nitrates, preservatives)
White or wheat bread (refined carbs, minimal fiber)
Mayo or mustard (seed oils, sugar, additives)
Maybe a slice of cheese and lettuce
The macros:
50-60g carbs (mostly refined)
15-20g protein (processed and inflammatory)
10-15g fat (seed oils)
The "healthy" salad:
Iceberg lettuce (zero nutrients)
A few vegetables (not enough)
Grilled chicken (if you're lucky—usually breaded and fried)
Store-bought dressing (sugar, seed oils, preservatives)
Croutons (refined carbs)
The macros:
30-40g carbs (from dressing and croutons)
15-20g protein (not enough)
15-20g fat (seed oils from dressing)
You think you're eating "healthy." You're not.
The fix:
Plan your lunch. Pack it the night before.
A proper lunch looks like:
30-40g of protein (chicken, beef, fish, eggs)
Healthy fats (avocado, olive oil)
Fiber-rich vegetables (not just lettuce)
Minimal refined carbs
If you like cooking (meal prep these on Sunday):
Grilled chicken thighs with roasted broccoli and sweet potato
Ground beef taco bowls: seasoned beef, rice, avocado, salsa, cheese, sour cream
Baked salmon with carrots and quinoa
Slow cooker pot roast with carrots, celery, and potatoes
Sheet pan chicken and vegetables (bell peppers, zucchini, onions)
If you need something quick to assemble:
Rotisserie chicken (shred it Sunday), mixed greens, avocado, olive oil + lemon
Canned wild-caught salmon or tuna (check ingredients) on a bed of greens with cucumbers, tomatoes, olives, and olive oil
Leftover dinner protein + raw veggies + hummus or guacamole
Ground turkey cooked with taco seasoning, served over greens with salsa and avocado
Charcuterie-style "adult lunchable" (no cooking required):
Sliced turkey or chicken (clean ingredients)
Cheese cubes or slices (real cheese)
Hard-boiled eggs (2-3)
Raw veggies: cherry tomatoes, cucumber slices, bell pepper strips, baby carrots
Olives or pickles
Apple slices or berries
Hummus or guacamole for dipping
Pack this in a divided container. It takes 5 minutes to assemble. No reheating required.
Simple salad (not sad desk salad):
Base: Mixed greens or spinach (not iceberg)
Protein: Grilled chicken, hard-boiled eggs, canned salmon, leftover steak
Healthy fats: Avocado, olives, cheese
Veggies: Cucumbers, tomatoes, bell peppers, shredded carrots, red onion
Dressing: Olive oil + balsamic vinegar or lemon juice + salt and pepper (skip the bottled dressing)
This keeps your blood sugar stable, fuels your brain, and prevents the afternoon crash.
But you didn't do that. You grabbed takeout or threw together whatever was convenient.
1:00 PM: Minimal Water (Or Flavored Water)
You've been running around all day. You're dehydrated.
So you either:
Barely drink any water
Drink flavored water (which is just water + artificial sweeteners, dyes, and "natural flavors"—aka more undisclosed chemicals)
What this does to your body:
Dehydration slows everything down. Your brain fog gets worse. Your energy crashes. Your digestion slows. Your detox pathways can't function.
And if you're drinking flavored water? You're adding artificial sweeteners that disrupt your gut microbiome and insulin response.
The fix:
Drink plain water. Add lemon, lime, or cucumber if you need flavor. Use trace minerals or a pinch of sea salt to support hydration.
Your body needs water. Not chemicals disguised as hydration.
3:00 PM: The Afternoon Slump
You're crashing. Hard.
You can barely keep your eyes open. You can't focus. You're irritable.
So you reach for:
Another coffee (more caffeine to mask the problem)
A sugary snack (granola bar, chips, cookies)
Energy drink (sugar + caffeine + chemicals)
What this does to your body:
Another blood sugar spike. Another cortisol spike. Another crash coming in 60-90 minutes.
You're not fixing the problem. You're making it worse.
The fix:
If you ate properly all day, you wouldn't have an afternoon slump.
But if you do hit a slump, eat protein and fat—not sugar and caffeine.
Quick afternoon snack options:
Hard-boiled eggs (1-2)
Peanut butter with carrots or apple slices
Cheese stick + berries
Olives + salami or prosciutto
Avocado with sea salt and lime
A small piece of dark chocolate (85%+ cacao)
Beef jerky or biltong (check ingredients)
Leftover protein from lunch
But you didn't. You grabbed the snack and the coffee. Now you're wired and tired at the same time.
6:00 PM: Dinner (Too Tired to Cook)
You're exhausted. You don't want to cook.
So you either:
Order takeout again (see lunch—same problems)
Make something quick and easy (frozen meal, pasta, cereal)
Skip dinner because you're "not hungry" (you are—you're just too depleted to feel it)
What this does to your body:
If you order takeout or eat processed food: more blood sugar spikes, more inflammation, more gut irritation.
If you skip dinner: your body goes into survival mode, your metabolism slows, your sleep suffers, and you wake up depleted again tomorrow.
The fix:
Plan your dinners. Meal prep on weekends. Keep it simple.
A proper dinner looks like:
30-40g of protein
Healthy fats
Fiber-rich vegetables
Minimal refined carbs
If you like cooking:
Pan-seared steak with roasted broccoli and mashed potatoes
Baked salmon with lemon butter, asparagus, and wild rice
Slow cooker beef stew with carrots, celery, potatoes, and bone broth
Grilled chicken with roasted brussel sprouts and sweet potato
Sheet pan shrimp with bell peppers, zucchini, and cherry tomatoes
Ground beef stuffed bell peppers with rice and cheese
Lamb chops with roasted root vegetables and herbed ghee
Chicken thighs with sautéed kale and roasted butternut squash
If you need something quick (20 minutes or less):
Ground beef or turkey cooked with seasoning, served with avocado, salsa, cheese, and lettuce wraps
Rotisserie chicken (shred it), sautéed vegetables, side of quinoa or rice
Stir-fry: pre-cooked protein (chicken, shrimp, beef), frozen stir-fry veggies, coconut aminos or tamari
Breakfast for dinner: scrambled eggs with sautéed spinach and avocado
Canned wild-caught salmon mixed with avocado mayo, served over greens with cucumber and tomato
Charcuterie-style dinner (no cooking required):
Grilled chicken or rotisserie chicken
Variety of real cheeses
Raw veggies: bell peppers, cucumbers, cherry tomatoes, snap peas
Olives, pickles, pepperoncini
Hummus or guacamole
Hard-boiled eggs
Fresh berries or apple slices
This is a legitimate dinner. It's nutrient-dense, protein-rich, and requires zero cooking.
One-pot/one-pan meals for minimal cleanup:
Sheet pan chicken thighs with whatever vegetables you have
Slow cooker chili (ground beef, beans, tomatoes, peppers—set it and forget it)
One-pot chicken and rice with vegetables
Skillet ground beef with zucchini, bell peppers, and marinara
This supports recovery, sleep, and hormone production overnight.
But you didn't do that. You grabbed whatever was easiest.
7:00 PM: Too Tired to Work Out (Or You Work Out on Empty)
You know you should work out. But you're exhausted.
Option 1: You skip the workout.
Your body needed movement. It needed to burn off stress. It needed to regulate cortisol and insulin.
But you skipped it. So your stress stays high, your energy stays low, and your metabolism stays sluggish.
Option 2: You work out, but you ate like shit all day.
You didn't eat enough protein. You didn't eat enough calories. You didn't fuel your body properly.
So your workout just depletes you further. You're breaking down muscle without giving your body the nutrients to rebuild.
The fix:
If you eat properly all day, you'll have the energy to work out.
And if you work out, eat enough protein and calories to support recovery. Otherwise, you're just digging yourself deeper into a hole.
9:00 PM: You Stay Up Watching TV
You're wired from all the caffeine and sugar. Your cortisol is still high. Your mind is racing.
So you stay up scrolling, watching TV, or doing anything but sleeping.
What this does to your body:
Blue light suppresses melatonin. Your circadian rhythm gets disrupted. Your body can't repair itself overnight.
You finally fall asleep at midnight. Then you wake up exhausted at 7 AM.
And the cycle starts all over again.
Solution: Set a “shortcut” in your phone to automatically turn on night shift, white point and set color filters to eliminate blue light.
The Bottom Line
This is why you're exhausted.
Not because you're broken. Not because you need more willpower.
Because your daily routine is destroying your energy, one bad decision at a time.
The crashes, the cravings, the brain fog, the irritability, it's all connected.
And it's all fixable.
Here's what needs to change:
✅ Eat a protein-rich breakfast within an hour of waking
✅ Drink plain water (not flavored chemicals)
✅ Plan your meals (stop grabbing whatever's convenient)
✅ Stabilize your blood sugar (stop riding the sugar rollercoaster)
✅ Move your body (even if it's just a walk)
✅ Get off screens before bed (let your body actually rest)
You don't need to overhaul everything overnight.
Start with one thing. Then another. Then another.
Your body will respond faster than you think.
And if you need help figuring out where to start, what to eat, and how to optimize your energy without feeling overwhelmed—that's exactly what I do.
Book a free clarity call. Let's fix this.
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The Astarte Company
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Medical Disclaimer:
The Astarte Company and Kaitlyn Auger are not licensed medical providers and do not diagnose, treat, prescribe, or provide medical advice. All information provided is for educational purposes only. Always consult with a qualified, licensed healthcare professional before making changes to your health regimen.